Questions to Ask Your Prospective Mate
2. Is everyone who disagrees with at least one of the six statements unregenerate?
3. Do you realize that by agreeing with the six statements, you are saying that people like Charles Spurgeon and George Whitefield were unregenerate when they spoke peace to Arminians?
4. Do you realize that by agreeing with the six statements, you are saying that YOU were lost when you were an Arminian and/or tolerant Calvinist (if you were either of these)?
5. Do you realize that anyone who says that Christians can confess a false gospel and/or that Christians need to keep repenting of believing a false gospel is lost?
6. Can a Christian temporarily fall into the sin of believing or confessing a false gospel?
7. Does any part of a believer confess a false gospel?
8. Does a believer or any part of a believer remain totally depraved after regeneration?
9. Before you were regenerated, was EVERYTHING you did evil, wicked, an abomination to God, dead works, fruit unto death?
10. Were you under the conviction of the Holy Spirit before you were regenerated?
11. After you were regenerated, did you believe for a time that at least some of those who believe in universal atonement are saved?
12. Can a regenerate person ever believe that the damned do not suffer eternally in hell?
13. Can a regenerate person go for a period of time before he is converted (believes the gospel)?
14. Does a regenerate person always have assurance of his salvation?
15. Are you a reconstructionist?
16. Are you a dispensationalist?
17. After reading www.outsidethecamp.org/notf.htm , www.outsidethecamp.org/noprcsgceagc.htm , www.outsidethecamp.org/nopink.htm , and www.outsidethecamp.org/norefcal.htm , are you in agreement with our disendorsement of Gordon Clark, John Robbins, the PRC, John Pedersen/Sovereign Grace Church, Bill Parker/Eager Avenue Grace Church, A.W. Pink, and John Calvin?
18. Are you in full agreement with the Christian Confession of Faith at www.outsidethecamp.org/ccf.htm ?
19. Do you know of any other Christians? If so, would they agree with your answers?
20. Are there any other ministries that you agree with, endorse, or support? If so, what are they?
21. Do you think it is okay for a Christian to pretend to kill someone or to play games or to watch TV/movies in which there is killing of people?
22. Do you consider all abortion to be murder?
23. Do you think that the WW2 intentional killings of civilians (such as Hiroshima, Nagasaki, Dresden) were murder?
24. Are all preemptive strikes* by any country immoral?
[*definition of preemptive strike: attacking another country before the other country has attacked you (for whatever reason - usually because there is some "chance" that the other country will attack your country in the future)]
25. Is the current war in Iraq an immoral war?
26. Would God ever command His people to do something immoral?
27. Has there ever been, is there now, or will there ever be a regenerate person who lived in sin, is living in sin, or will live in sin?
28. Do you agree with the article www.outsidethecamp.org/marriagelaw.htm ?
29. Do you agree with the article www.outsidethecamp.org/marriage.htm ?
30. Are a man and a woman who have had sexual intercourse with each other considered married to each other in God's eyes?
31. Have you ever had sexual intercourse with someone?
32. Do you believe that remarriage after divorce is adultery while the original spouse is alive with absolutely no exceptions?
33. Has there ever been, is there now, or will there ever be a regenerate person who lived in adultery, is living in adultery, or will live in adultery?
34. Has there ever been, is there now, or will there ever be a regenerate person who was, is, or will be an adulterer/adulteress?
35. Is marriage a lifelong bond that can only be broken by the death of one of the spouses?
36. Is it possible that marriage is a lifelong bond for one spouse and not for another?
37. If one married person commits adultery and the married people divorce, is the person who did not commit adultery free to remarry?
38. If the person in question 34 who did not commit adultery remarries, is he/she then living in adultery?
39. If the person in question 34 was unregenerate when he/she remarried then is regenerated and confronted with the fact that remarriage after divorce is adultery, will that regenerate person continue to have a marital relationship with his current spouse?
40. Will that regenerate person in question 36 ever marry anyone else?
41. Why is remarriage after divorce called adultery?
42. Do you agree with the article www.outsidethecamp.org/perspur.htm?
43. Are you a KJV-Only advocate?
44. What do you think of white supremacists?
45. What do you think of children of Christian parents being educated in congregate-setting schools (non-homeschools)?
46. What do you think of "Sunday Schools" in which the children are segregated from their parents?
47. Do you believe that it is wrong for a woman to preach, to pray in the assembly, or to speak in the assembly?
48. Do you agree not to fellowship with anyone who lives in or condones immorality, including the kind of murder and adultery mentioned above?
49. What is love?
50. Is there such a thing as "love at first sight"?
51. What is "romance," and is it biblical?
52. What is the purpose of courtship?
53. Is "dating" outside the context of looking toward marriage sin?
54. Is it sin to engage in "loving" physical contact with a member of the opposite sex whom you do not marry?
55. What is "flirting," and is it okay?
56. Is it ever okay to watch a "love scene" on TV or in movies?
57. Is it ever okay to comment that a member of the opposite sex is "sexy" or "good-looking"?
58. Do you believe everything the Bible says and strive to obey every command?
59. What do you do if you find that you are doing something the Bible forbids or not doing something the Bible commands?
60. What does "modest apparel" mean in 1 Timothy 2:9?
61. What does "submit" mean in Ephesians 5:22?
62. What does "obedient" mean in Titus 2:5?
63. What does "discreet" mean in Titus 2:5?
64. What does "keepers at home" mean in Titus 2:5?
65. What does "busybodies" mean in 1 Timothy 5:13?
66. What does "in silence with all subjection" mean in 1 Timothy 2:11?
67. What is meant by head covering in 1 Corinthians 11:4-7?
68. What is meant by "long hair" in 1 Corinthians 11:15?
69. What should a wife do if she wants to do one thing and the husband wants to do another?
70. If your husband told you to only wear clothes that covered you from neck to ankle, what would you do?
71. If you husband told you never to leave your house except with him, what would you do?
72. Must you obey your parents even after you have moved out of the house?
73. What would you do if your husband wants you to do one thing and your parents want you to do another?
74. Who would you go to if you had problems in your marriage?
75. If your husband did something that annoyed you, who would be the first person you would tell?
76. What is the purpose of makeup and jewelry?
77. What is your ultimate goal in life?
78. When is it okay for a married woman to work outside the home?
79. Is it okay to go swimming in public?
80. What kind of books do you like to read? Who are your favorite authors?
81. Do you watch TV? If so, what programs do you regularly watch?
82. Do you think a husband and wife should have separate bank accounts?
83. What is a wife's role in the family?
84. What does it mean to raise children in the "nurture and admonition of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4)?
85. What does it mean that the children are "holy" in 1 Corinthians 7:14?
86. What is meant by "simple concerning evil" in Romans 16:19?
87. Should children of Christian parents be allowed to play with children of nonchristian parents?
88. What should be the basis of deciding to stop having children?
89. Are you planning to home-school your children?
90. Under what circumstances is it permissible to have babysitters for your children?
91. Is it okay for the parents to have a "date night" and leave the children at home with someone else?
92. Are the movies such as "The Little Mermaid" and "Aladdin" good entertainment for children?
93. Are there any TV shows that you think are okay for children to watch?
94. Do you think it is okay to spank children?
95. Is it good for children to be encouraged to have "girlfriends" and "boyfriends"?
96. Do you believe that it is inevitable that teenagers will be immature and rebellious?
97. Is it okay for women to go out and socialize without their husbands?
98. Is it ever okay to buy something that you can't pay for right away?
99. Is it important for children to be present in the worship service?
100. Is it okay for your children to play with other children unsupervised?
101. What are your views on Christmas and Easter?
102. If your parents invite your family to a Christmas dinner, would you accept the invitation?
103. Is it okay to tell children that Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, and the Tooth Fairy are real?
104. Would you let a man into your house without your husband's permission?
105. What is the most important thing in raising a family?